On Friday, I got news via email that Bonnie Tinker died in a bike accident in Virginia. Bonnie was a queer activist and peace activist in Portland; she was also a pillar of the Multnomah Monthly Meeting of Friends, which I've been attending irregularly since last year. She was 61 years old. I didn't really know Bonnie, but her involvement in the meeting, as an advocate for queer rights as a social justice issue and otherwise, was always one of the things that made me feel I was in the right place.
The kind of accident that killed Bonnie is so common that it has a name: the "right hook". In her case, a truck overtook her on the left while she was riding straight, and struck her when it turned right in front of her.
Unlike some types of accidents, right hooks are completely preventable: they don't happen when cyclists ride in the center of a lane where right turns are permitted. This doesn't mean that all the responsibility for preventing these accidents lies with cyclists. Motorists have to cooperate too, by respecting cyclists' legal right to occupy the center of the lane when keeping to the right would be unsafe.
If you ride a bike, you need to know the following information; it could save your life. It's natural to feel that it's safer to ride close to the curb all the time, but because drivers (unless extremely drunk or unskilled) don't hit objects that are in front of them, in many situations it's safest to ride in the center of the lane where you will be seen. When riding in a substandard width lane (that is, a lane where a car can't pass a bike safely), riding in the center of the lane communicates your intent (to continue riding straight) to other drivers, just as when you're driving a car, driving in the center of the lane communicates your intent to continue occupying the lane.
If you drive a car, the following is your moral responsibility as well as your legal responsibility: if a cyclist is riding in front of you, wait until it's safe to pass and then pass in the adjacent lane (possibly meaning waiting for a break in oncoming traffic and passing in the oncoming traffic lane), the same way you would always pass a slower vehicle.
When you honk at a cyclist, try to run a cyclist off the road, or otherwise make a cyclist feel unsafe riding in the center of the lane, you could kill someone -- indirectly, when they expose themselves to danger from right-turning vehicles because they wish to avoid angering drivers by riding in the lane.
I don't think Bonnie had to die. I know that cyclists have died because drivers have refused to accommodate cyclists who try to ride in the safest way it's possible to ride a bicycle: vehicularly.
The following is from John Forester's book _Effective Cycling_ (sixth edition, MIT Press, 1993; accessible through Google Books), starting at p. 313.
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Hey gals!
Can someone tell me how to do this updo ? ^^
It looks simple but..
Oh well I have shoulder lenght hair and bangs just like her.
Thanks
xoxo

I know I've been spending too much time discussing The Omnivore's Dilemma and organic farming when I elect to spend twice as much on sauerkraut, just so I can enjoy it with a clear conscience.
Speaking of pickled vegetables... I truly do appreciate why novices are reluctant to tackle pickling and canning. Botulism is no laughing matter. It is bad form to kill your new neighbor. Especially with a housewarming gift. Next thing you know, everyone's referring to your humble offering as the Baby Carrots of Death or the Gherkins from Hell.
Looking forward to interviewing Handmade Nation director Faythe Levine. Even more so since I found out her Mom operates this organic dairy farm. I was already a fan of their fresh cheeses. I just purchased a quarter-wheel of their Black Mombazo and a wedge of Chipotle Cheddar (that's it left of the sauerkraut) at today's farmers market. Now that I might get to go see them being made, I'm doubly excited.
On our way home from market—isn't that totally affected, saying just "market" instead of "the market"?—
m3warlord suggested we start having a weekly "Pot o' Beans Challenge." Each week, we take turns making a different pot of beans and using it as the base for as many delicious meals as possible. I suspect he was half-kidding, but I took him up on the challenge. My mind is reeling with visions of chick peas!
My first non-family wedding! My friend Sarah from high school got married this weekend. It was a traditional Pakistani wedding, which blew my mind.
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Hello girls! I haven't posted in ages, bad bad member I know!
A while ago I did a little tutorial on how to do a super quick side updo, it's super easy and has a retro feel to it, so I thought it might help some.
Now that it's getting hot, we have to find new ways of dealing with our locks!
Sorry about my accent, it's not the best! *blushing*
If you don't have bangs, you can combine it with some victory rolls, or a nice pomp at the front, too!
Note: I saw this movie twice in less than 24 hours, and I couldn't even come close to saying everything I have to say about it. I'd be writing for a week.
Moxie Beauty & Hair Parlor will be opening its doors in August!!
Moxie is a unique shop for all your hairstyling needs. Have your pompadour shaped up while listening to the tunes of Chuck Berry, Social Distortion, Johnny Cash, The Supremes, Stray Cats,etc.!
The location is a traditional barbershop setting.
We service women, men, and kids. We specialize in retro/vintage hairstyling as well as the latest modern trends in both hair cutting and color!
Moxie is where modern & retro meet!!
We offer Hair, Make-up, & Nail services.
Color services include natural colors & special effects colors.
We offer unique "Look" packages for a complete look from the 30's,40's, 50's, or 60's! This includes hairstyling, make-up, & nails!
We cut pompadours & D.A.'s!
Moxie uses top notch professional products such as Rusk, American Crew, ISO, Pravana Color, etc.! We also use American Greaser Supply pomade, Lucky 13 pomade, Kustom Klaws nail art, & more!
Many unique items for purchase as well!!
Stay tuned for more updates & photos!!
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Grand Rapids, MI 49508
Staff: Stephanie Strwobridge & Caroline K.
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This morning Damian was in his room playing with one of his toy cars, and I guess he was pretending the driver was listening to music, with a capella soundtrack provided by him, of course. Here's a partial transcript taken down by
silestra:
I... I will be king... and you.. you will be queen... nothing will keep us together... standing by the wall... Ch-ch-ch-changes.. base the strange... watch out, you gotta rock-n-rollers... ch-ch-ch-changes.. baby you can drive my car... yes I'm gonna be a star... baby you can drive my car... yes I'm gonna be a star... baby I love you. Beep beep, beep beep, yeah! Beep beep, beep beep, yeah! Beep beep, beep beep yeah!
I will be king...
Jingle bells, jingle bells, jingle all the round...
Heroes... E-I-E-I-O... Old MacDonald had a farm, E-I-E-I-O... and once he had some geese... he had a beep... he had a cow...
I'm gonna be hiiiIIIGH as a kite by then... rocket man, burning [unintelligible] pee alone...
Hey all,
I did a brief look thru the tags but didn't see my exact question.
My girlfriend and I are coming to visit NYC. We're only staying for about a day (Arriving around noon on the 19th, leaving around 5pm on the 20th). We need to find a hotel for the night, and I was wondering if you guys knew any (preferably near Times Square) that are decent and not too expensive. I've looked at hotels(dot)com but I honestly don't trust the reviews on there. I'm sure most are from hotel employees trying to make it look better. No way a 145 dollar a night hotel gets a 5 star rating from every person on there. Doesn't seem logical.
We already have planned out the basics of what we want to see (certain museams, head over to staten island, basic touristy stuff) but if you all have any suggestions as to what a first timer in the Big Apple should see, I'll gladly listen.
Thanks in advance
-Andrew
Hi to all you lovely ladies and the occasional gentleman!
I've been watching this community for a year or so, but didn't have the courage to post here until now.
Last April I attended the wedding of my friends and did a pin curl set called Glamorous Casual (can't find a link just now). Anyways pics and more detail after the cut.
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Oh my god I am so freakin bored. I'm dangerously, criminally, offensively bored. All of them time. Lately I just feel like a child in the middle of the summer holidays stuck at their grandparents in dorkesville or something.
So bored that the other night it actually seemed like a good idea to play a drinking game that envolved sellotaping glass bottles to my hands on a roof.
I need some new hobbies or some new friends or both, but as is so often the way when you feel like this, I just can't seem to work up the energy or sustained attention to do anything much about it.
Anyone have any ideas for fun activites? My life is just all reading, drinking too much and sitting around doing nothing in particular. The Jonathan Creek box set arriving was actually the highlight of my week last week. I totally need to get my arse in gear about this MA, because as far as I can see it's the only possible way out of the mental stagnation and social isolation in which I seem to have immured myself.
In a bit me and Ally are off to drink cocktails and then watch Johnny Depp draiving like a madman in awesome thirties suitsd shooting the hell out of people. Fiiiiiit. How I love the romance of crime.
In other news, I want some more tattoos so badly I can taste it.
And I really need to get my internet fixed, really really badly.
well, i failed to do anything last night. i woke up at 2am to some couple screaming in the alley. but the fireworks? like they never happened. how nice and shitty.
I'm looking for a place in Seattle (or surrounding) that does laser tattoo removal. Google provides me with names, but I'd like to see personal experiences.
I scanned the archives of this community and saw this post, with no real recommendations.
Are there any places that people have personal experience with? Living in Los Angeles, I went to Dr. Tattoff, and have been generally pleased with the results. However I moved before the removal was complete and now have a 3 year old tattoo that looks as if it's 30 years old, making it even more asinine. Money isn't really an issue, and I definitely don't want to cover it up, so any advice is really appreciated.
Also, I won't post a picture of the tattoo, suffice it to say it's one that could end up on one of those "OMG WTF" tattoo communities.
I'm on my 4th Saab and feel the need to commence my newest Saab but also remember the old ones. My newest Saab is a 1993 900 Turbo 5-Speed, forest green in color. My car has an affinity for Simon and Garfunkel and thus prefers to be known as "Scarborough". Its previous owner was a media/entertainment person who listed to a lot of S+G while driving the car in brief spurts around suburban Connecticut. I was the very lucky driver who learned stick shift in an hour or so and had to drive a very sluggish car through the mountains of Southern Mass. Apparently simon and garfunkel did not provide enough enthusiasm for Scarborough's previous owner to affirmatively use the gas pedal... thus carbon buildup and an unhappy turbo. But not the turbo works, but we have realized that cheap gas was put into Scarborough, so cheap and badly that even pumping 93 into her hasnt helped nor has fuel cleaners. There is some inconsistency and clogging with the gas particularly in going to first gear where Im getting the same rpms as usual to put it into first but the car stalls out... GAS GAS GAS.. and the car really hates stop and go traffic and I live in a city so great. So on nice non-humid summer days I take her out on the back roads to go whizz up and down them for a bit. And we beat out the Beemers and Buicks with glee.
And with each Saab I've owned, each one is very particular with its needs and driving, mostly because they are used cars but if you treat them well, they are a complete joy to drive. I've never driven a car that makes me outright giggle after I spent 3-4 days driving it in a particular Saabish way and putting lots of fuel cleaner and 93 gas in it. It's a car that is beyond peppy or speedy; SAABS are downright spiritually robust!
Here are my other previous Saabs:
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Omar S is kind of a big deal these days. A mix CD for Fabric, gigs in the UK and Europe. But this is a guy who has stayed independent, and done his own thing his own way. I was completely blown away by his afternoon DJ set in Greektown this year during DEMF, so when I got home I went to the FXHE site and bought all the MP3s he offers and some vinyl as well.
Turns out when you order stuff from FXHE, you have to exchange e-mails with Alex himself, which is kinda cool. Great guy, too — he ended up sending me more MP3s than I actually ordered.
So in honor of Independence Day, I give you an all-FXHE mix.
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boredhello fellow thrift whores! i've got some old & some new.
( sorry if they're giant )
SInce I got my hair cut I wanted to play around with it.
I was inspired by Barbie with my lipstick, trying something other then red for once!
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the amazing Itty Bitty Kitty Committee is raising money for homeless pets in the Tacoma Humane Society's Dog-a-Thon Walk.
Help them reach 15 squillion!
I'm sorry to have posted this for a second time, though the last time was a few weeks ago...
But anyone here interested in seeing the Japanese band VAMPS at the Fillmore theater?
I have ONE ticket I bought for $45 and am willing to sell for $35.
The show is THIS SATURDAY, JULY 11TH.
Please contact me at ras576@nyu.edu
-Rachel

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You know what I don't get? Why so many people like Sarah Palin. I mean, I don't LOATHE her. I don't hate her the way Republicans hate Hillary Clinton. I just seriously, honestly, absolutely DO NOT GET why so many conservatives love her so much. Yeah, she gives good speeches. I actually wrote a paper on her OMG AWESOME speech at the 2008 Republican National Convention thinger. (I'll upload it if you want to read it). But, beyond that, what's so great about her? She's basically done NOTHING. She is (was) the governor of a state with the 3rd lowest population in the country. Like, less than 700,000. My COUNTY has like, twice as many people as that.
Not to mention, she's a giant fucking hypocrite, what with the abstinence-only education stance and then her daughter getting knocked up at 17. And don't get me started on Trig - she parades that poor baby around like he's a political statement or something. Gaaaaaaaaah.
I mean, in a way, I understand. I love Hillary Clinton. I supported her in last year's primaries until it was painfully obvious she couldn't win. She's one of my heroes, in fact. And when people ask me why I love Hillary so much, I basically say, "Just because". I have actual TRUFAX reasons why I love her, but basically it just comes down to I think she's awesome, and that's all that counts. I bet it's something like that with conservatives who idolize Sarah Palin. But I still don't get it.
I'm hearing that the reason why she's stepping down as governor is so that she can focus on a presidential run. ::shudders:: THAT IS JUST SO HORRIBLE I CANNOT EVEN CONTEMPLATE IT. And honestly, does she really think she can win? Come on, Sarah.
confusedHey, Happy Independence Day to me and all my fellow Americans!
celebratoryThe scene: Midway Airport, about 1:20 PM on Independence Day 2009.
I walk up to the TSA worker in the "Expert Traveler" line and show my driver's license and boarding pass. She shines the little purple light on it that presumably lights up with the letters "tErRoRiSt" at appropriate times. She hesitates.
She calls one of her colleagues over and they turn away from me, holding my ID and boarding pass and whispering.
I know what it's about. It's never happened to me before, but for two and a half years, my license has said "Chevalier, Timothy Jan" underneath the picture and "F" underneath where it says "sex". It was just a matter of time. I hear one of them whispering to the other "it's one of the things they tell us to look for..." and the other says "...but we're not allowed to ask them..."
She asks me to step over to the desk on the side. A third guy comes up and asks me whether I prefer "Mr." or "Mrs." Choosing for now not to point out the incompleteness of his list, I said "Mr." He looks almost as if he's expecting me to explain, but I don't think I need to explain anything. "But it says here..." I may have cocked an eyebrow at this point. "Is it an error?" "No." [pause] "It's my legal sex." (In retrospect, I shouldn't even have volunteered that.)
"Do you have a previous name you used?" he asks me. I was on the verge of answering, and then the voice in my head said, "Fuck, you don't have to answer that question." I asked "Are you allowed to ask that question?" He said they had to verify my ID. I asked if there was a supervisor I could talk to. He said he was the supervisor -- wrong answer.
After asking me how I say my middle name, he asked me to sit on the window ledge while they waited for a fourth person to come. He asked me if I had another ID. I gave him my Portland State ID.
Fourth person came. "Is it an error?" "It's not an error." "Well, because it says 'F' but you said you prefer 'Mister'..." (Well, what? I think.) I didn't say anything. She and the "supervisor" looked at each other. She said "I think it's okay" and shrugged. She walked away.
The "supervisor" gave me back my IDs. He asked me whether I'd ever had a problem before. I said "no", truthfully. He said "well, you should have that error corrected." (I'd said it wasn't an error, twice.) I said that legally, it was impossible for me to change it. I'm not sure what he thought. He let me go through security.
I was lying when I said it was impossible -- in Oregon, your driver's license can have whatever gender marker you like (as long as it's "M" or "F") as long as you get a letter from a DMV-approved therapist affirming that your gender is really what you think it is.
Read that again: "DMV-approved therapist".
I don't want to give my tacit approval to a system that says it's the state (and its approved therapists), not me, that knows what sex my brain expects my body to be. If I don't change my mind about that, I'd better start budgeting an extra half an hour when I go to the airport.
I think it's important to stand up for your rights. I like an opportunity to kick ass and take names as much as any other guy does. That doesn't mean I relish the threat of public humiliation. I was shaking when I got to the place for taking my boots off and my laptop out.
I have multiple friends (some who are trans, some who are cis) who've been strip-searched for less.
I'm going to Europe in two months. Getting the gender marker on your passport changed is more difficult than getting an Oregon driver's license changed. To change it, I would have to submit a letter that says that I have "completed sex reassignment surgery". Many cissexual women have breast reduction surgery; the surgery that I just had is substantially similar to breast reduction. It's unclear whether the US Passport administration would consider my surgery "sex reassignment surgery", and there are no clear published guidelines that suggest either that they would, or that they wouldn't. Passport change evaluation is opaque.
This is what my boarding pass looked like after the four TSA workers got done with it. I guess the initials "AS" mean "we checked this person's gender and determined they weren't a terrorist based on that."
If you travel by air, do you feel safer after reading this story?
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My husband and I decided to celebrate our 8th year together with some Indian food last night. Every thing was perfect. Outdoor seating, wonderful food, a nice cold beer, and about 800 zombies yelling, "BRAINS!" and "NAAN!" at us. Only in Fremont, eh? Maybe next time I go out I should bring a chainsaw. This was an anniversary to remember. :)
Of possible interest to Etsy sellers in the Seattle area.
* Who: Maria (Etsy.com CEO), Matt and Anda (Etsy Admins) will be in Seattle for one night to visit, talk a bit and answer questions!
* What: Etsy Summer Tour '09 Seattle
* When: Monday, July 13, 2009
* Where: Greenwood Collective, 8537 Greenwood Ave N Suite 1, Seattle, WA 98103
* Time: 6:00pm to 8pm (open to the general public also!)
Here is a Google map link
This event is Open to the General Public.
( A whole bunch of thriftalicious outfits )
Keep on thriftin', lovelies :)
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"Tina Fey just resigned from "30 Rock." She told the AP that she can do more as an actor and comedy writer without actually starring in or writing hit shows or movies." --
beatnikside
Speculation in some quarters is she's setting herself up for an Oscar run.
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trunk, thrifted for $50 (originally marked at $100)
trenchcoat, thrifted ages ago for $10
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for all fairweather thrifters in the province of québec, friends, comrades! now is the time to strike! since everyone moves on july 1st, they are overflowing with treasures at half price, or even free, at least in québec city. i've been thrifting every day for the past four days and will keep going until i find myself a coat tree.
Looking for something to do this Fourth of July? Might I suggest a scenic drive or four?
Seattle Northwest - http://www.dolari.net/pub/seattlenw.p
Seattle Northeast - http://www.dolari.net/pub/seattlene.p
Seattle Southwest - http://www.dolari.net/pub/seattlesw.p
Seattle Southeast - http://www.dolari.net/pub/seattlese.p
All four trips are based on the 1962 World's Fair Scenic Routes, and are adapted for changes in traffic patterns since the sixties (well, as best as I remember them, so don't sue if you can't make a left turn, drive off a cliff, or smash into pedestrians walking around Green Lake). I've driven all four of them, and I'm a big fan of the Northwest and Southwest trips, but I'm a sucker for water.
my friend has an apt on 90th and west end ave with a balcony that overlooks the hudson river. will we be able to see the fireworks tonight???? thanks
Happy 4th everyone!!
I've been looking for a little loveseat, cheap at the local thrifts for a while now. And I snuck into one yesterday who happened to be having a huge sale.
This bad boy was sitting with absolutely no lovin' at all. :(
( The best find in the history of finds. :) )
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chipperHey!
Does anyone know of a place where I can rent a big cake for someone to jump out of?
Today, my last day of my 46th year on the planet, I took it easy. Well, insofar as taking it easy works for me. I got up early and got my kidlet ready for theater camp and for her big performance as Dorothy in Wizard of Oz. I dealt with all the last minute crises like finding a needle and orange thread and a pair of white socks. I went to the gym and busted my ass running on the treadmill, doing the Stairs of Terror, pedaling on the exercycle, and doing a buttload of free weights while standing on a yoga ball. I then rushed home and scrubbed my kitchen for two hours before giving up housecleaning to go see Public Enemies for the second time in less than 24 hours. Didn’t regret my decision because it was just as good if not better and most definitely is and will be the absolute best Hollywood film of the year. Period.
I came home, made myself some lunch, then met my dad to go see our Superstar play Dorothy. My dad was so happy to see his granddaughter (and even happier still that a certain other party did not join us). Bean was amazing. All the kids were amazing. Nothing can put smiles on your face like watching a group of kids sing, dance and act with all their heart. We were surprised when our good friend E drove down from Phoenix speeding at 90 mph all the way to make it to Bean’s performance. That’s the kind of thing that a Good Friend does, and it’s nice to have a good friend right now.
We came home and I cooked a fantastically delicious meal. We then had to “bite the bullet” and go see my parental units because my dad got me a surprise birthday cake, and since I spend my birthday in the quiet peace of my own home, we did that tonight. It went pretty well, all things considered. I won’t go into the details of the “all things” right now. My dad gave me fifty bucks. I’ll use it to buy new running shoes. I always do. Can’t wait to run with shock absorption again.
Came home and I worked on a “July Collage” while E and Bean watched Wizard of Oz. Now the sky just busted open with big ass thunder that is shaking the house at its roots. Nice way to ring in the last few minutes of this day.
Bean has just informed me that she is exhausted, and as a matter of fact I am too. Time for bed.
End last blog entry of my 46th year. I’m posting it for the record.
Good night.
What's the difference between a former Alaska governor and a pit bull?
A couple questions for y'all:
1 - If you wanted to donate a decently sized collection of comics, where would you start? Children's Hospital? Some charity?
2 - If you wanted to take a friend somewhere in Seattle to begin teaching them how to drive, where would you recommend?
Snark will be graded on a scale of 1-10.
Here's the whole set. No one told me that flickr has built-in editing software. I cropped and brightened the solo photos to the best of my half-assed ability.
Oh, and let me stop you right now, I'm already performing this in public, with whatever random creepy dudes taking photos. So I'm not terribly worried about posting my own photos and making them readily available to the internet. Plus, with some of the stuff I've read and seen, I have a better sense of personal privacy than the average person.
Here are my favorites:
I've never looked so graceful! Except for the pastie poking out the top of my... top. Those are red and black dollar signs, by the way.
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The cat that protects my dreams
2 pillow cases for a dollar from the Salvation Army :D 
My goodness it's been a busy day. First, La Cyn actually Got Up Early!
After I recovered from my shock, we piled into the car and went to the Home Depot, where we collected plants and mulch and various implements of garden destruction. From there we returned home and commenced tearing away at our miserable garden.
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Hey I found alot of really good stuff today, here's a few neat stamps I found at a thrift store in Tucson, AZ on Grant & 1st, it doesn't really have a name, but I always find good stuff there.
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